A friend was discussing his plight with a case worker who he claims has megalomania. Megalomania is apparently about having delusions of grandeur. It is understandable that my friend becomes quite frustrated with this particular care giver because she pulls strings with some members of his own family. My friend is in a predicament because if he does one thing he gets ostracised and if he does another he is labeled aggressive. What do you say to a Megalomaniac?
Unfortunately my friend has a Sagittarius Moon and “zipping it” results with all manner of frustration. The Sagittarius Moon person can enjoy having their say – its hard to keep them quiet sometimes. It seems the Sag moon also has a penchant for needing to be right and “knowing everything”. When my friend’s frustration levels rise – sometimes I am the recipient of the gunk building up in his life. Thats ok because we work in tandem that way from time to time.
What a Predicament
Say What – These are the choices?
Perhaps the care giver has a Virgo moon where the catch cry is more about needing to be perfect. The Virgo Moon is the nit picking – pedantic mother in the chart – who has the best way of doing things in life. Even when the Virgo moon mother is being nice – her nurturing tone can sound like things are far from perfect in the persons life. In other words the Virgo Moon person can develop a stroke filter for praise and nurturing. Giving a compliment to the person who has a negative stroke filter can end in silence or rejection.
So what do you say? Chances are that one can say too much and then be fast tracked for a damned good ostracising.
Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. Carl Jung